Assessing Children

I feel that we put to much focus on standardized testing, I have seen teachers spend weeks teaching children how to fill in the bubbles. Where that time could have been spent working on reading or math, while testing is important it is not as the other skills.

In China
Testing is many times used as the only factor in deciding if a child is promoted to the next. This could be especially detrimental because in China only the top of each class get to be part of the Communist party therefore the only ones electing governmental officals.

Poverty

Growing up I remember hearing the phrase "We don't have the money" constantly, to the point that as a young child I learned to look at price tags before asking for anything. My mom would see me and ask if I wanted that, especially around Christmas when looking to see what I wanted, and I would tell her no. She asked why a lot and I would say it was too expensive, to this day I have a hard time buying anything for myself if I can find it cheaper or can do without.
I do not know how much we could really afford, and how much my dad just did not want to spend. Though I do remember one occasion, when we were on vacation with our Girl Scout troop and I had to use my birthday money to pay for gas to get us home or we would have been stranded. My mom told me that I would get my money back but I never saw any of the money.
China
I spent a summer in China, and saw a lot of poverty. Many people think that since they are communist that they make sure everyone is taken care of, but part of the laws of are that you only have rights in the province you are born in. So if you move to a bigger city to make a better life for your family you no longer have the benefits of the government, including that your children can't go to school.
I saw many homeless families begging on the streets, who had moved from farm areas to the city to get better jobs. 

Breastfeeding

Breastfeeding is a meaningful topic for me, because I wanted my son to be exclusively breastfed until he was at least 1 and planned for him to self-wean. I never thought that he would not latch and that I would end up exclusively pumping, but that is what happened. I noticed when he was 3 months old that he was tongue-tied which is why he wouldn't (couldn't) really latch, I had it snipped as soon as I noticed it. We saw a lactation consultant because I really wanted him to start latching. She informed me she had never seen a more stubborn child in her life, milk was pouring on his head and he was screaming for the bottle. The second he was given the bottle he stopped crying and started eating. I managed to pump for seven and half months, after that I could not take it any longer.

In Ghana a national policy was developed that said babies should only receive breast milk and breastfeeding rates have increased 22% in 5 years. Women are taught to breastfeed the minute that the baby is born. Women are expected to feed their babies wherever, whenever and are not expected to use any type of cover, but the culture is very modest tight pants and low cut tops are not acceptable. I find it very interesting that in America breast can be shown in sexual ways, but it is not as acceptable to openly breastfeed in some places.

I feel that this information will impact my future work, in many ways. For one I am a doula in training, and I would like to be able to help clients be successful with breastfeeding, I have learned how to spot a tongue-tie now which is a very common problem with breastfeeding. I also want to open a child development center, and I want to promote breastfeeding by allowing mothers to breastfeed in the classrooms and offering a quiet place to breastfeed if they would prefer. I also want to be able to offer my staff the time to go breastfeed their child during the work day, instead of just offering space for them to pump.

Birth

I went into labor early on May 4, 2012 I had been going to see a midwife throughout my pregnancy. When I told my husband that I had been having contractions he wanted me to go ahead and call. I made the call, I was told to take a shower to see if they stopped and to call back if they continued and got closer together this was at about lunch time. Around 2pm my contractions were only five minutes apart so I called my husband to come home from work and called the midwife back and told her that we would be coming in to the birth center to be checked. I live an hour from the birth center and by the time we got there the contractions had spaced back out, so we came home and spent the night.

            I got up the next morning still having contractions but they were spaced very irregularly, so we decided to go check our mail. It’s not a long walk but during it my contractions went from 10 minutes apart to under 5 minutes apart. I called the midwife and she said to head on to the birth center. We arrived before she did so she told us to go get some lunch, as you are encouraged to eat during labor there. I was put on a monitor for only 20 minutes but they were the longest 20 minutes of my life, I hated not being able to move and forced to lie on my back. As soon as the monitoring was over, I received antibiotics for Group B Strep, and then I got into the birth tub. I labored in the birth tub for several hours, with country music blaring through the birth center since I was the only laboring mom there. When it came time to push, I had gotten out of the tub to make sure I was dilated enough to push. I was allowed to get back into the tub as I wanted a water birth, however as I was pushing nothing was happening in the tub. The midwife encouraged me to get out and try other positions, I tried getting on all fours, squatting, laying on my back which worked best for me. But I still was not really progressing, they were telling me to go urinate but I was unable. Finally they decided to try to cath me, within three pushing and only minutes my beautiful son was born. He was born at 6:07pm and we were released at approximately 1am.

Germany

In Germany all births are required to have a midwife present with a doctor being optional. A pregnant woman is not legally allowed to be fired and can stop working 6 weeks before the due date and cannot return to work for 8 weeks with full pay. Then there are three years of unpaid leave available, with the third year being able to be taken by either parent. A practice that would probably never be accepted in the U.S. is that parents must choose the child's name off an approved list. 

Thanks to my Colleagues

I would like to thank each one of my colleagues for the support this semester, it has been great getting to know everyone through posts and blogs. I remember thinking that the blog seemed like a ridiculous assignment, but I have learned a lot about my colleagues by reading the blogs. I also am happy to have learned so much about the blogging, I never knew that you could build an actual website with a blog and have since updated my business and started a website with a blog.

Meaningful Ethical Codes

1. 1.4—To appreciate the vulnerability of children and their dependence on adults.
• Young children cannot protect or take care of themselves, therefore they need us to do so for them.
2. 1.8—To support the right of each child to play and learn in an inclusive environment that meets the needs of children with and without disabilities.
• Young children learn best through play and being in an inclusive classroom allows all the children to be accustomed to seeing children with and without disabilities, this will help the children realize that this is normal and therefore they should be less likely to judge other children.
3. 1.9—When we have reasonable cause to suspect child abuse or neglect, we shall report it to the appropriate community agency and follow up to ensure that appropriate action has been taken. When appropriate, parents or guardians will be informed that the referral will be or has been made.
• I feel that it's great that guidelines are in place that make it mandatory for suspected child abuse to not only be reported but also followed up on to make sure that action was taken. I know that in my state, you no longer report to county offices you have to call the state directly because so many cases were not actually being investigated.

Week 4 quotes

"It is a good rule to face difficulties at the time they arise and not allow them to increase unacknowledged."  Edward W. Ziegler

"We know that teachers are the key to good child care - and as long as teachers are undervalued, American children, too, will keep getting less than they deserve." Marcy Whitebook

"It’s in early childhood education that I was able to really see what a unique opportunity we have in working with children we as professionals in the early childhood field we have an opportunity to shape a child’s life for the better so that’s what makes me passionate." – Sandy Escobido

"Every day I go to work I look forward to it because I know the services that I provide to children it’s to their benefit it’s not anything that’s going to benefit me its more to them." – Raymond Hernandez

Personal Childhood Web

1  Aunt Penny and Uncle Danny Ray are my favorite aunt and uncle we have always been close. Before I was born Uncle Danny Ray almost died of heart problems, but my mother told him he had to stay alive and be an uncle to me and somehow he pulled through. I stayed with them a lot when I was little; they always made me feel like I was one of their children. To this day I am still treated like one of their children, I get told about doctors’ visits and things just like their children are told. On my wedding day my husband was told by Uncle Danny Ray that he better not ever hurt me.

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  MaSue is my maternal grandmother and we always went to see her at least once a week. She makes everyone feel special and loved, whether you are family or not. I remember staying with her after she had some kind of back surgery when I was little and going through the cabinets to get things she needed because I would not let her bend down. I still try to make sure to call and check on her every few days, because she’s not doing so well now. When I got pregnant, my mom told her and she called me the next day to tell me how excited she was about great-gran number 18, because it doesn’t matter how many of us there are we all feel special with MaSue.

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  Grandma was my paternal great-grandmother; she passed away when I was pretty young about 7 to 9. I can’t really remember, I do remember being very upset that I lost my best friend. She lived next door to us and I went to her house to hang out with her almost every day. She helped with my sense of independence because I remember when I got to start using a trail through the woods to go to her house, instead of the driveways. With the driveways, when I was out of my parents sight she could see me, but with the trail no one could see me, so it meant that I was more grown up. I was closer to her than probably anyone else; there are still songs that if I hear I have a hard time not crying because they remind me of her. I would link the song, but then I would cry every time I looked at my blog.

Child That Touches my Heart

I have been watching a little girl since she was two-months-old and she is now fourteen-months-old, I love watching her and my son develop every day. Watching their different personalities is just amazing, she is very clingy to both her parents and me while my son who is eight-months-old is very social. In fall of last year I witnessed her starting to come out of her shell, we go to story time at the public library every week and when we first started going she would cry and cling to my legs if anyone spoke to her or I had to walk away. She has grown to where she will actually walk around and play with the other children. It's great that she has become so much more social than she was just six-months ago.

It also touches my heart that while my son is an only child he will have a big sister figure in her for as long as we are living in proximity to her. They already fight like siblings, and have their times where they are sweet and loving. I feel that they will have a good relationship for a long time.

Childhood Book

One of my favorite childhood books is Corduroy; the reason that I like this book is because while completing my undergraduate degree in Child and Family Development I worked in the Child Development Center on campus as part of my class work. While I was working in the two-year-old classroom, I had to lead a reading activity I used this book and we dressed teddy bears for the activity to accompany the book. The children really enjoyed the story and it just made me enjoy the book even more. 

Recent picture of me with my son